In His Own Words
About Him
Decent solid citizen. What you see is what you get. We all have war stories - cannot change the past so I believe it must be left in the past & one must move on. Positive outlook on life , like the outdoors etc. calm person. No baggage. Prefer a quiet life with special person. Like nature, animals & enjoy sport. Do not need to be in a crowd to have a good time but however can be very social. Do not expect a lady to look after me - it must be her choice. Totally capable of doing all my own stuff - nice if they want to do it. I do not do things just because it is the thing to do. Do conform just for the sake of such. My dogs very important to me - my family. Am fairly analytical but can be very spontaneous. See a new relationship a bit like running a marathon - start of slow & steady & if feel good can up the pace - not a rush in type person.I believe the partner who has the best skills in an area must call the shots.Try live on the theory of only one life - nothing ventured & you will never know. No harm in having ideals & aspirations & dreams. I also think this chemistry story that many put out is wrong. You need a few "ingredients " to get a reaction - it does not happen in seconds by vision. Many of us are single & looking because we let our instant visual appreciation over rule common sense in the past - we all know looks do not last forever! By nature I like to lead but have no issues where the lady is better suited in certain areas. A strong relationship is built on a 2 member team with respect for each other. One woman man. I like to think of how we measure ourselves - need to flourish - the unconventional works best for me. Do not really care what others think about me.
About His Ideal Match
Easy going lady who has left the past behind. Should look after her looks & health. Honest, open & can agree to disagree. Respect for themselves & others. Somebody who likes the outdoors, sport & quiet times. Does not bear grudges & does not bring up all the old stuff on a regular basis. Enjoy & build on similarities & respect differences. A best buddy who I know will always be there for me & I for them. Prefer ladies who do not need alcohol to kick start their personalities. If not happy spit it out at the time - do not let anger fester inside then explode days later. Sometimes imperfection is perfection! Prefer somebody who finds reasons to do things rather than excuses not to do things. Must not sweat the small stuff! Not very patient with people who have addictions. Not here to play games, hurt anybody's feelings or just get involved for the sake of it. A lady looking for a serious long term relationship. A affectionate lady. Somebody who can give their all to a relationship - half measures = poor results! Somebody who can see the funny side sometimes when things go wrong. A lady who likes to smile from time to time. Somebody who still wants a strong relationship where both parties bring out the best in each other & want to continue to develop. I have zero expectations. Will get on better with somebody who has had a few tough times than a poser.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (randburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 184cm (6' 0.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Educational; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Running; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; German; Indian; Pub Grub; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
I don't speak to my family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Legendary Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
