In Her Own Words
About Her
To get to know me, you should have hair on your teeth! But, if you accept the challenge, you will never be bored!
It's difficult for me to say I like this or that, because I usually like things at opposite sides of the spectrum. For example: I love music, consider myself a rock chick, sometimes listen to classical music, a lot of genres in between, but definitely not everything. So, do you see my dilemma - do I list all the types of music I like, or the ones I don't?
One thing that is constant though, is that I LOVE animals! And if you touch my dog you die...
I have zero ball sense, but I do love supporting my teams (YAY Sharks!) and friends when they play. On the other hand I do enjoy water sports, from swimming to Scuba diving, as long as the water is not too cold 😬.
I love travelling (have been everywhere from Mexico to Madagascar), but haven't done enough of it lately. My last big trip was to Phuket, Thailand. Ask me about Bangla Road 😉. Travelling was much easier to afford when I worked in London, and going to Europe for a long weekend didn't mean spending a full day in airports and on planes! I prefer to travel with a friend or partner - anyone interested?
About Her Ideal Match
Financially secure is nice, but emotionally secure is more important. You must have confidence in yourself. If you feel you have to prove it, it means you don't have it!
You HAVE to love animals, especially dogs.
Someone I can talk to, be best friends with. A partner who I can trust, someone who won't try to rule or be ruled.
Some similar interests are a good start, but I'm always up for learning something new.
I love to travel, so an adventurous spirit would be fantastic!
I can be quite stubborn, so you have to be a good negotiator :)
PS Quick question: why do so many guys find assertiveness in a woman (one of the profile questions) a turn-off?
From the internet:
Being assertive means communicating with others in a direct and honest manner without intentionally hurting anyone's feelings.
Being assertive means being able to stand up for your own or other people's rights in a calm and positive way, without being either aggressive, or passively accepting 'wrong'.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Kleinbosch), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 59 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Opera; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Investing; Making Music; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cricket; Dancesport; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Soccer; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Legendary Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
